Every romantic relationship indeed gets tough. A man and a woman in love would surely experience a fair share of love’s trials. From a guy’s point of view, every day is wonderful when you see her. And especially when the days and the weeks will roll by, you discover something new about her. It may be something you like (e.g. Her interest in your favorite sport, the way she behaves), and sadly, something you do not (e.g. Long hours spent shopping, her baby-talking with you). However, as her guy you would really make it a point to please her and of course, make her feel loved, just as exactly how you feel. Over time, disagreements and maybe, arguments come about. You fight, and maybe a minute later, you kiss and make up. Well, that’s a good thing then. But what happens, when the usual fights you have turn into a huge one? Something both of you find it hard to talk about in just one sitting? Something YOU did that broke her trust? Something that the only solution she could propose, is to break up with you? And unfortunately out of mere surge of emotions, you both agreed to. The next day you woke up, you found yourself extremely missing your girlfriend, or shall we say your ‘ex-girlfriend’.
“How do I win her back?” you say. A man truly in love with his girl wouldn’t let go of her that easy. There are a lot of things you can do to win her back, although some tips may not be applicable to all.
1. Apologize. Nothing’s more serious than a sincere apology. Say what you mean, and mean it when you say it.
2. Peace offering. Bring her something she loves, like a bouquet of roses or a box of her favorite chocolates, or maybe both.
3. Actions speak louder than words. Now that you have apologized, prove to her that you really are sorry. Do your routine, like attend to her cheering practices and walk her home every after class.
4. Be as thoughtful as you can. A morning greeting with cheesy quotes will surely brighten up her day.
5. Avoid the things that made her mad at you. This is important. You wouldn’t want her to break up with you again, do you? If its the poker night with friends that made her so upset (because you got so drunk you weren’t able to attend class or go to work).
6. Be as sincere as you can be. If all the things you do for her is against your will, then forget about it. She sure is lucky to let you go!
7. Be consistent. It’s not just because you’re trying to win her back that is why you’re doing all of these. Make every normal day special to her.
When you have succeeded, make sure to treasure the second chance she gave you. It’s not that easy to build back trust to someone you love. They say “Love is sweeter the second time around”, then prove it to her.